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Relationship safety

Is a romantic partner asking for money a scam?

Recognise emotional pressure, repeated crises, and payment requests in online relationships.

The short answer

A relationship can feel real and still be used to obtain money. Pause when affection is paired with secrecy, emergencies, or a reason you cannot verify independently.

Warning signs to pause on

  • They avoid live video or always have an excuse not to meet.
  • A sudden medical, travel, customs, or investment emergency.
  • They ask you to keep the relationship or transfer private.
  • They suggest crypto, gift cards, or receiving money for them.

What to do next

  1. Do not send money or accept funds on someone else's behalf.
  2. Ask a trusted friend to review the messages with you.
  3. Verify photos and identity outside the relationship conversation.
  4. Use SignalCheck to examine requests, links, and screenshots.

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